A 31 Day Journey Through the Book of Proverbs: Day 31
Proverbs 31
The Words of Lemuel
Description of a Worthy Woman
Reflection
You may have heard of the “Proverbs 31 woman.” The final chapter of Proverbs describes a woman who fears the LORD. We know that those who fear God have wisdom. The woman described has a lot of responsibility and is not someone who is brushed aside. She is respected and praised by those around her.
Reflect
What attributes describe this kind of woman in Proverbs 31?
What does the passage say about husbands?
Engage
Whether you are a girl or guy, the Bible has much to say about our roles in this world, and Proverbs 31 helps us understand how to love and respect one another as men and women.
What verses help you to understand your opposite gender?
Does this give you better expectations of relationships?
What confuses you?
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Read Ephesians 5:22-33 where it talks about wives and husbands. What is their relationship supposed to look like according to this passage?
The word “submit” can be a controversial word. Given everything you’ve learned from Proverbs and how all people are to listen to, learn from, and build each other up, how do these verses connect?
A 31 Day Journey Through the Book of Proverbs: Day 30
Proverbs 30
The Words of Agur
Reflection
We know by now that the Bible is full of wisdom—Proverbs is like our road map to wisdom. Every word of God is trustworthy and true, and when we follow Him, He is a shelter that we can run to anytime.
Reflect
Read verse 5 again. What does it say about God’s Word?
Engage
In what ways have you seen God’s word to be true in your life?
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A 31 Day Journey Through the Book of Proverbs: Day 29
Proverbs 29
Warnings and Instructions
Reflection
The Bible is full of counterintuitive statements. We see them in many of Jesus’ teachings like “the last will be first,” “dying to ourselves,” “losing your life to gain it,” etc. Here in Proverbs we see many other paradoxes, one being in verse 23 of today’s chapter. It tells us, “One’s pride will bring him low, but he who is lowly in spirit will receive honor.”
Reflect
What other verses have you seen that seem to contradict modern thinking?
Engage
What do you think it means to be lowly in spirit? (Hint: It is not thinking less of yourself or beating yourself up… think about humility.)
What does that look like for you in your life?
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A 31 Day Journey Through the Book of Proverbs: Day 28
Proverbs 28
Warnings and Instructions
1The wicked flee when no one is pursuing,
But the righteous are bold as a lion.
2By the transgression of a land many are its princes,
But by a man of understanding and knowledge, so it endures.
3A poor man who oppresses the lowly
Is like a driving rain which leaves no food.
4Those who forsake the law praise the wicked,
But those who keep the law strive with them.
5Evil men do not understand justice,
But those who seek the Lord understand all things.
6Better is the poor who walks in his integrity
Than he who is crooked though he be rich.
7He who keeps the law is a discerning son,
But he who is a companion of gluttons humiliates his father.
8He who increases his wealth by interest and usury
Gathers it for him who is gracious to the poor.
9He who turns away his ear from listening to the law,
Even his prayer is an abomination.
10He who leads the upright astray in an evil way
Will himself fall into his own pit,
But the blameless will inherit good.
11The rich man is wise in his own eyes,
But the poor who has understanding sees through him.
12When the righteous triumph, there is great glory,
But when the wicked rise, men hide themselves.
13He who conceals his transgressions will not prosper,
But he who confesses and forsakes them will find compassion.
14How blessed is the man who fears always,
But he who hardens his heart will fall into calamity.
15 Like a roaring lion and a rushing bear
Is a wicked ruler over a poor people.
16A leader who is a great oppressor lacks understanding,
But he who hates unjust gain will prolong his days.
17A man who is laden with the guilt of human blood
Will be a fugitive until death; let no one support him.
18He who walks blamelessly will be delivered,
But he who is crooked will fall all at once.
19He who tills his land will have plenty of food,
But he who follows empty pursuits will have poverty in plenty.
20A faithful man will abound with blessings,
But he who makes haste to be rich will not go unpunished.
21To show partiality is not good,
Because for a piece of bread a man will transgress.
22A man with an evil eye hastens after wealth
And does not know that want will come upon him.
23He who rebukes a man will afterward find more favor
Than he who flatters with the tongue.
24He who robs his father or his mother
And says, “It is not a transgression,”
Is the companion of a man who destroys.
25An arrogant man stirs up strife,
But he who trusts in the Lord will prosper.
26He who trusts in his own heart is a fool,
But he who walks wisely will be delivered.
27He who gives to the poor will never want,
But he who shuts his eyes will have many curses.
28When the wicked rise, men hide themselves;
But when they perish, the righteous increase.
Reflection
While confessing we have done something wrong is difficult, if we hide our sins, we suffer even more. Verse 13 tells us, “Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy.” In James, we read that we should confess our sins to one another and pray for one another that we may be healed (James 5:16).
Reflect
What happens to those who hide their sin? What happens to those who confess them?
Engage
As we have been talking about hard conversations, admitting our sin to someone can be very difficult. Why do you think confessing and praying for one another brings healing?
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What are the things in your life you need to confess? Who is a safe person you can tell and pray with?
A 31 Day Journey Through the Book of Proverbs: Day 26
Proverbs 26
Similitudes, Instructions
Reflection
Chapter 26 talks a lot about someone who is foolish and the consequences of their actions and spends a good portion addressing gossip. Re-read verses 20-26. Some versions use the word “whisperer,” while others use the word “gossip” or something similar. This passage explains how gossip looks charming but is really the opposite.
Reflect
What does the passage say about someone who gossips?
When there is no “whisperer,” no one who is spreading gossip, what happens (verse 20)?
Engage
We are all guilty of gossip. By listening to wisdom, practicing obedience, and praying for help, we can become better at catching ourselves and holding our tongue.
What ways can you practice these things?
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A 31 Day Journey Through the Book of Proverbs: Day 25
Proverbs 25
Similitudes, Instructions
1 These also are proverbs of Solomon which the men of Hezekiah, king of Judah, transcribed.
2 It is the glory of God to conceal a matter, but the glory of kings is to search out a matter.
3 As the heavens for height and the earth for depth, so the heart of kings is unsearchable.
4 Take away the dross from the silver, and there comes out a vessel for the smith;
5 Take away the wicked before the king, and his throne will be established in righteousness.
6 Do not claim honor in the presence of the king, and do not stand in the place of great men;
7 For it is better that it be said to you, “Come up here,” than for you to be placed lower in the presence of the prince, whom your eyes have seen.
8 Do not go out hastily to argue your case; Otherwise, what will you do in the end, when your neighbor humiliates you?
9 Argue your case with your neighbor, and do not reveal the secret of another,
10 Or he who hears it will reproach you, and the evil report about you will not pass away.
11 Like apples of gold in settings of silver is a word spoken in right circumstances.
12 Like an earring of gold and an ornament of fine gold is a wise reprover to a listening ear.
13 Like the cold of snow in the time of harvest is a faithful messenger to those who send him, for he refreshes the soul of his masters.
14 Like clouds and wind without rain is a man who boasts of his gifts falsely.
15 By forbearance a ruler may be persuaded, and a soft tongue breaks the bone.
16 Have you found honey? Eat only what you need, that you not have it in excess and vomit it.
17 Let your foot rarely be in your neighbor’s house, or he will become weary of you and hate you.
18 Like a club and a sword and a sharp arrow is a man who bears false witness against his neighbor.
19 Like a bad tooth and an unsteady foot is confidence in a faithless man in time of trouble.
20 Like one who takes off a garment on a cold day, or like vinegar on soda, is he who sings songs to a troubled heart.
21 If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; And if he is thirsty, give him water to drink;
22 For you will heap burning coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you.
23 The north wind brings forth rain, and a backbiting tongue, an angry countenance.
24 It is better to live in a corner of the roof than in a house shared with a contentious woman.
25 Like cold water to a weary soul, so is good news from a distant land.
26 Like a trampled spring and a polluted well is a righteous man who gives way before the wicked.
27 It is not good to eat much honey, nor is it glory to search out one’s own glory.
Reflection
This chapter starts off with a puzzling verse. Oftentimes, God does not reveal His full plan to us, but that does not mean that He takes pleasure in keeping secrets from us. When we can’t see the full picture, we have to trust God more to show us the way. When we trust in God, we honor Him and bring Him glory.
Reflect
Read verse two again: “It is the glory of God to conceal things, but the glory of kings to search things out.” What does it mean to conceal?
Engage
Do you ever feel like you’re in the dark and don’t know what’s happening?
Are there specific parts of your life where you feel lost and need to ask God to reveal His plan?
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A 31 Day Journey Through the Book of Proverbs: Day 24
Proverbs 24
Precepts and Warnings
1 Do not be envious of evil men, nor desire to be with them;
Reflection
Reflect
What do these verses say about the wicked and those who do not know God?
What is our response supposed to be when we encounter people we don’t like?
Engage
Of course, these things are often easier said than done. Pray that God would help you to forgive and to love those who are difficult to love.
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A 31 Day Journey Through the Book of Proverbs: Day 23
Proverbs 23
On Life and Conduct
1 When you sit down to dine with a ruler, consider carefully what is before you,
2 And put a knife to your throat if you are a man of great appetite.
3 Do not desire his delicacies, for it is deceptive food.
4 Do not weary yourself to gain wealth, cease from your consideration of it.
5 When you set your eyes on it, it is gone. For wealth certainly makes itself wings like an eagle that flies toward the heavens.
6 Do not eat the bread of a selfish man, or desire his delicacies;
7 For as he thinks within himself, so he is. He says to you, “Eat and drink!” But his heart is not with you.
8 You will vomit up the morsel you have eaten, and waste your compliments.
9 Do not speak in the hearing of a fool, for he will despise the wisdom of your words.
10 Do not move the ancient boundary or go into the fields of the fatherless,
11 For their Redeemer is strong; He will plead their case against you.
12 Apply your heart to discipline and your ears to words of knowledge.
13 Do not hold back discipline from the child, although you strike him with the rod, he will not die.
14 You shall strike him with the rod and rescue his soul from Sheol.
15 My son, if your heart is wise, my own heart also will be glad;
16 And my inmost being will rejoice when your lips speak what is right.
17 Do not let your heart envy sinners, but live in the fear of the LORD always.
18 Surely there is a future, and your hope will not be cut off.
19 Listen, my son, and be wise, and direct your heart in the way.
20 Do not be with heavy drinkers of wine, or with gluttonous eaters of meat;
21 For the heavy drinker and the glutton will come to poverty, and drowsiness will clothe one with rags.
22 Listen to your father who begot you, and do not despise your mother when she is old.
23 Buy truth, and do not sell it, get wisdom and instruction and understanding.
24 The father of the righteous will greatly rejoice, and he who sires a wise son will be glad in him.
25 Let your father and your mother be glad, and let her rejoice who gave birth to you.
26 Give me your heart, my son, and let your eyes delight in my ways.
27 For a harlot is a deep pit and an adulterous woman is a narrow well.
28 Surely she lurks as a robber, and increases the faithless among men.
29 Who has woe? Who has sorrow? Who has contentions? Who has complaining? Who has wounds without cause? Who has redness of eyes?
30 Those who linger long over wine, those who go to taste mixed wine.
31 Do not look on the wine when it is red, when it sparkles in the cup, when it goes down smoothly;
32 At the last it bites like a serpent and stings like a viper.
33 Your eyes will see strange things and your mind will utter perverse things.
34 And you will be like one who lies down in the middle of the sea, or like one who lies down on the top of a mast.
Reflection
The people around us influence us more than we think. This passage of Proverbs warns us to be careful of those who are deceitful, stingy, and foolish. If we are not rooted in wisdom, it can be very easy to be swept away by foolish things. Verse 17 says, “Let not your heart envy sinners, but continue in the fear of the LORD all the day.”
Reflect
What do these verses tell us about speaking to the foolish and listening to them? Why do you think that is?
Engage
As believers, we have the Holy Spirit within us as a helper. He allows us to understand and guides us as we live. Those who don’t know Him cannot discern right and wrong easily and having hard conversations with them can hurt our relationships with them. We need to pray for those who do not believe and love them but also be cautious in the way we speak to them.
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A 31 Day Journey Through the Book of Proverbs: Day 22
Proverbs 22
On Life and Conduct
1 A good name is to be more desired than great wealth, favor is better than silver and gold.
2 The rich and the poor have a common bond, the LORD is the maker of them all.
3 The prudent sees the evil and hides himself, but the naïve go on, and are punished for it.
4 The reward of humility and the fear of the LORD are riches, honor and life.
5 Thorns and snares are in the way of the perverse; He who guards himself will be far from them.
6 Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he is old he will not depart from it.
7 The rich rules over the poor, and the borrower becomes the lender’s slave.
8 He who sows iniquity will reap vanity, and the rod of his fury will perish.
9 He who is generous will be blessed, for he gives some of his food to the poor.
10 Drive out the scoffer, and contention will go out, even strife and dishonor will cease.
11 He who loves purity of heart and whose speech is gracious, the king is his friend.
12 The eyes of the LORD preserve knowledge, but He overthrows the words of the treacherous man.
13 The sluggard says, “There is a lion outside; I will be killed in the streets!”
14 The mouth of an adulteress is a deep pit; he who is cursed of the LORD will fall into it.
15 Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of discipline will remove it far from him.
16 He who oppresses the poor to make more for himself or who gives to the rich, will only come to poverty.
17 Incline your ear and hear the words of the wise, and apply your mind to my knowledge;
18 For it will be pleasant if you keep them within you, that they may be ready on your lips.
19 So that your trust may be in the LORD, I have taught you today, even you.
20 Have I not written to you excellent things of counsels and knowledge,
21 To make you know the certainty of the words of truth that you may correctly answer him who sent you?
22 Do not rob the poor because he is poor, or crush the afflicted at the gate;
23 For the LORD will plead their case and take the life of those who rob them.
24 Do not associate with a man given to anger; Or go with a hot-tempered man,
25 Or you will learn his ways and find a snare for yourself.
26 Do not be among those who give pledges, among those who become guarantors for debts.
27 If you have nothing with which to pay, why should he take your bed from under you?
28 Do not move the ancient boundary which your fathers have set.
Reflection
Reflect
What does verse 17 tell us? What do we need to apply our hearts to?
Engage
Has someone ever told you that you were wrong? How did you respond? When things don’t go our way, it is very easy to give up and react poorly. Pray that God would allow you to practice giving and taking advice.
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A 31 Day Journey Through the Book of Proverbs: Day 21
Proverbs 21
On Life and Conduct
1 The king’s heart is like channels of water in the hand of the LORD; He turns it wherever He wishes.
2 Every man’s way is right in his own eyes, but the LORD weighs the hearts.
3 To do righteousness and justice is desired by the LORD more than sacrifice.
4 Haughty eyes and a proud heart, the lamp of the wicked, is sin.
5 The plans of the diligent lead surely to advantage, but everyone who is hasty comes surely to poverty.
6 The acquisition of treasures by a lying tongue is a fleeting vapor, the pursuit of death.
7 The violence of the wicked will drag them away, because they refuse to act with justice.
8 The way of a guilty man is crooked, but as for the pure, his conduct is upright.
9 It is better to live in a corner of a roof than in a house shared with a contentious woman.
10 The soul of the wicked desires evil; His neighbor finds no favor in his eyes.
11 When the scoffer is punished, the naïve becomes wise; But when the wise is instructed, he receives knowledge.
12 The righteous one considers the house of the wicked, turning the wicked to ruin.
13 He who shuts his ear to the cry of the poor will also cry himself and not be answered.
14 A gift in secret subdues anger, and a bribe in the bosom, strong wrath.
15 The exercise of justice is joy for the righteous, but is terror to the workers of iniquity.
16 A man who wanders from the way of understanding will rest in the assembly of the dead.
17 He who loves pleasure will become a poor man; He who loves wine and oil will not become rich.
18 The wicked is a ransom for the righteous, and the treacherous is in the place of the upright.
19 It is better to live in a desert land than with a contentious and vexing woman.
20 There is precious treasure and oil in the dwelling of the wise, but a foolish man swallows it up.
21 He who pursues righteousness and loyalty finds life, righteousness and honor.
22 A wise man scales the city of the mighty and brings down the stronghold in which they trust.
23 He who guards his mouth and his tongue, guards his soul from troubles.
24 “Proud,” “Haughty,” “Scoffer,” are his names, who acts with insolent pride.
25 The desire of the sluggard puts him to death, for his hands refuse to work;
26 All day long he is craving, while the righteous gives and does not hold back.
27 The sacrifice of the wicked is an abomination, how much more when he brings it with evil intent!
28 A false witness will perish, but the man who listens to the truth will speak forever.
29 A wicked man displays a bold face, but as for the upright, he makes his way sure.
30 There is no wisdom and no understanding and no counsel against the LORD.
Reflection
In our human nature, we all think we know what is best for ourselves. It’s an innate part of who we are. However, most of the time, we aren’t that great at determining the best for ourselves. In verse 2 of today’s reading, we see that in the moment, everyone thinks his or her way is right. Ultimately, though, God is the one who determines right from wrong. That is why He gave us the Bible! We have a book full of truth and grace that helps us to make the best choices as we go through our lives.
Reflect
Some of the best things for us to pursue are righteousness and kindness. What does verse 21 say those who pursue those things will find?
What does verse 3 say God values?
Engage
What do you think it means that God weighs the heart?
If God loves us and wants the best for us (which He does), in what areas of your life do you need to trust Him?
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A 31 Day Journey Through the Book of Proverbs: Day 20
Proverbs 20
On Life and Conduct
1 Wine is a mocker, strong drink a brawler, and whoever is intoxicated by it is not wise.
2 The terror of a king is like the growling of a lion; He who provokes him to anger forfeits his own life.
3 Keeping away from strife is an honor for a man, but any fool will quarrel.
4 The sluggard does not plow after the autumn, so he begs during the harvest and has nothing.
5 A plan in the heart of a man is like deep water, but a man of understanding draws it out.
6 Many a man proclaims his own loyalty, but who can find a trustworthy man?
7 A righteous man who walks in his integrity— How blessed are his sons after him.
8 A king who sits on the throne of justice disperses all evil with his eyes.
9 Who can say, “I have cleansed my heart, I am pure from my sin”?
10 Differing weights and differing measures, both of them are abominable to the Lord.
11 It is by his deeds that a lad distinguishes himself if his conduct is pure and right.
12 The hearing ear and the seeing eye, the Lord has made both of them.
13 Do not love sleep, or you will become poor; Open your eyes, and you will be satisfied with food.
14 “Bad, bad,” says the buyer, but when he goes his way, then he boasts.
15 There is gold, and an abundance of jewels; but the lips of knowledge are a more precious thing.
16 Take his garment when he becomes surety for a stranger; and for foreigners, hold him in pledge.
17 Bread obtained by falsehood is sweet to a man, but afterward his mouth will be filled with gravel.
18 Prepare plans by consultation, and make war by wise guidance.
19 He who goes about as a slanderer reveals secrets, therefore do not associate with a gossip.
20 He who curses his father or his mother, his lamp will go out in time of darkness.
21 An inheritance gained hurriedly at the beginning will not be blessed in the end.
22 Do not say, “I will repay evil”; Wait for the Lord, and He will save you.
23 Differing weights are an abomination to the Lord, and a false scale is not good.
24 Man’s steps are ordained by the Lord, how then can man understand his way?
25 It is a trap for a man to say rashly, “It is holy!” And after the vows to make inquiry.
26 A wise king winnows the wicked, and drives the threshing wheel over them.
27 The spirit of man is the lamp of the Lord, searching all the innermost parts of his being.
28 Loyalty and truth preserve the king, and he upholds his throne by righteousness.
29 The glory of young men is their strength, and the honor of old men is their gray hair.
Reflection
Reflect
Where does the passage say our steps are from?
Engage
Have you ever struggled to know God’s plan?
What did you do about it?
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A 31 Day Journey Through the Book of Proverbs: Day 19
Proverbs 19
On Life and Conduct
1 Better is a poor man who walks in his integrity than he who is perverse in speech and is a fool.
2 Also it is not good for a person to be without knowledge, and he who hurries his footsteps errs.
3 The foolishness of man ruins his way, and his heart rages against the Lord.
4 Wealth adds many friends, but a poor man is separated from his friend.
5 A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who tells lies will not escape.
6 Many will seek the favor of a generous man, and every man is a friend to him who gives gifts.
7 All the brothers of a poor man hate him; How much more do his friends abandon him! He pursues them with words, but they are gone.
8 He who gets wisdom loves his own soul; He who keeps understanding will find good.
9 A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who tells lies will perish.
10 Luxury is not fitting for a fool; much less for a slave to rule over princes.
11 A man’s discretion makes him slow to anger, and it is his glory to overlook a transgression.
12 The king’s wrath is like the roaring of a lion, but his favor is like dew on the grass.
13 A foolish son is destruction to his father, and the contentions of a wife are a constant dripping.
14 House and wealth are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the Lord.
15 Laziness casts into a deep sleep, and an idle man will suffer hunger.
16 He who keeps the commandment keeps his soul, but he who is careless of conduct will die.
17 One who is gracious to a poor man lends to the Lord, and He will repay him for his good deed.
18 Discipline your son while there is hope, and do not desire his death.
19 A man of great anger will bear the penalty, for if you rescue him, you will only have to do it again.
20 Listen to counsel and accept discipline, that you may be wise the rest of your days.
21 Many plans are in a man’s heart, but the counsel of the Lord will stand.
22 What is desirable in a man is his kindness, and it is better to be a poor man than a liar.
23 The fear of the Lord leads to life, so that one may sleep satisfied, untouched by evil.
24 The sluggard buries his hand in the dish, but will not even bring it back to his mouth.
25 Strike a scoffer and the naïve may become shrewd, but reprove one who has understanding and he will gain knowledge.
26 He who assaults his father and drives his mother away is a shameful and disgraceful son.
27 Cease listening, my son, to discipline, and you will stray from the words of knowledge.
28 A rascally witness makes a mockery of justice, and the mouth of the wicked spreads iniquity.
Reflection
Reflect
What does chapter 19 tell us about those who do not listen to instruction?
What other kinds of actions does this chapter encourage? What kinds does it warn against?
Engage
How well do you take advice?
Do you listen and take advice to heart? Do you disregard it? Do hard conversations hurt?
True listening requires obedience. If we hear the words spoken to us, but ignore them, we aren’t actually listening. How can you practice listening in your life?
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A 31 Day Journey Through the Book of Proverbs: Day 18
Proverbs 18
Contrast the Upright and the Wicked
1 He who separates himself seeks his own desire, he quarrels against all sound wisdom.
2 A fool does not delight in understanding, but only in revealing his own mind.
3 When a wicked man comes, contempt also comes, and with dishonor comes scorn.
4 The words of a man’s mouth are deep waters; The fountain of wisdom is a bubbling brook.
5 To show partiality to the wicked is not good, nor to thrust aside the righteous in judgment.
6 A fool’s lips bring strife, and his mouth calls for blows.
7 A fool’s mouth is his ruin, and his lips are the snare of his soul.
8 The words of a whisperer are like dainty morsels, and they go down into the innermost parts of the body.
9 He also who is slack in his work is brother to him who destroys.
10 The name of the Lord is a strong tower; The righteous runs into it and is safe.
11 A rich man’s wealth is his strong city, and like a high wall in his own imagination.
12 Before destruction the heart of man is haughty, but humility goes before honor.
13 He who gives an answer before he hears, it is folly and shame to him.
14 The spirit of a man can endure his sickness, but as for a broken spirit who can bear it?
15 The mind of the prudent acquires knowledge, and the ear of the wise seeks knowledge.
16 A man’s gift makes room for him and brings him before great men.
17 The first to plead his case seems right, until another comes and examines him.
18 The cast lot puts an end to strife and decides between the mighty ones.
19 A brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city, and contentions are like the bars of a citadel.
20 With the fruit of a man’s mouth his stomach will be satisfied; he will be satisfied with the product of his lips.
21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.
22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.
23 The poor man utters supplications, but the rich man answers roughly.
Reflection
The tongue is a very powerful part of the body, and the Bible has much to say about it. Solomon tells us in verse 21 that “death and life are in the power of the tongue.” That’s a lot of power! Our words can be used for great good, but also great harm, and this is why the Bible teaches us over and over about our words, our tongue, and the way we speak to one another.
Reflect
We have already read about how powerful our words can be. What verses talk about words/the mouth in this chapter?
Engage
What are some of the things you’ve learned about words through Proverbs so far?
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A 31 Day Journey Through the Book of Proverbs: Day 14
Proverbs 14
Contrast the Upright and the Wicked
1 The wise woman builds her house, but the foolish tears it down with her own hands.
2He who walks in his uprightness fears the Lord, but he who is devious in his ways despises Him.
3In the mouth of the foolish is a rod for his back, but the lips of the wise will protect them.
4Where no oxen are, the manger is clean, but much revenue comes by the strength of the ox.
5 A trustworthy witness will not lie, but a false witness utters lies.
6 A scoffer seeks wisdom and finds none, but knowledge is easy to one who has understanding.
7 Leave the presence of a fool, or you will not discern words of knowledge.
8 The wisdom of the sensible is to understand his way, but the foolishness of fools is deceit.
9 Fools mock at sin, but among the upright there is good will.
10 The heart knows its own bitterness, and a stranger does not share its joy.
11 The house of the wicked will be destroyed, but the tent of the upright will flourish.
12 There is a way which seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death.
13 Even in laughter the heart may be in pain, and the end of joy may be grief.
14 The backslider in heart will have his fill of his own ways, but a good man will be satisfied with his.
15 The naïve believes everything, but the sensible man considers his steps.
16 A wise man is cautious and turns away from evil, but a fool is arrogant and careless.
17 A quick-tempered man acts foolishly, and a man of evil devices is hated.
18 The naïve inherit foolishness, but the sensible are crowned with knowledge.
19 The evil will bow down before the good, and the wicked at the gates of the righteous.
20 The poor is hated even by his neighbor, but those who love the rich are many.
21 He who despises his neighbor sins, but happy is he who is gracious to the poor.
22 Will they not go astray who devise evil? But kindness and truth will be to those who devise good.
23 In all labor there is profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty.
24 The crown of the wise is their riches, but the folly of fools is foolishness.
25 A truthful witness saves lives, but he who utters lies is treacherous.
26 In the fear of the Lord there is strong confidence, and his children will have refuge.
27 The fear of the Lord is a fountain of life, that one may avoid the snares of death.
28 In a multitude of people is a king’s glory, but in the dearth of people is a prince’s ruin.
29 He who is slow to anger has great understanding, but he who is quick-tempered exalts folly.
30 A tranquil heart is life to the body, but passion is rottenness to the bones.
31 He who oppresses the poor taunts his Maker, but he who is gracious to the needy honors Him.
32 The wicked is thrust down by his wrongdoing, but the righteous has a refuge when he dies.
33 Wisdom rests in the heart of one who has understanding, but in the hearts of fools it is made known.
34 Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a disgrace to any people.
Reflection
The Bible has a lot to say about fruit—the fruit in the Garden of Eden, the fruit of the Spirit, the symbolic fruit we bear, etc. In this chapter of Proverbs, we see that our actions—the “fruit” that people see—reflect what is in our hearts. In the ESV version, verse 14 says, “The backslider in heart will be filled with the fruit of his ways, and a good man will be filled with the fruit of his ways.” Think of an apple tree. If it’s not healthy, it’s not going to produce healthy apples. Likewise, if it is healthy, it won’t produce bad apples. If we are turned away from God and His ways, our hearts are hardened against Him, and we will reap the consequences of our actions—death (Romans 6:23). When our lives are transformed by God and we walk in His ways, we bear good fruit.
Reflect
What does Proverbs 14 say about fruit, or the results of our actions?
What does this passage say about the fear of the LORD?
Engage
What do you think a backslider is (verse 14)?
Can you see any of the fruits (whether good or bad) resulting from your life choices?
An Extra Mile
A 31 Day Journey Through the Book of Proverbs: Day 13
Proverbs 13
Contrast the Upright and the Wicked
1 A wise son accepts his father’s discipline, but a scoffer does not listen to rebuke.
2 From the fruit of a man’s mouth he enjoys good, but the desire of the treacherous is violence.
3 The one who guards his mouth preserves his life; The one who opens wide his lips comes to ruin.
4 The soul of the sluggard craves and gets nothing, but the soul of the diligent is made fat.
5 A righteous man hates falsehood, but a wicked man acts disgustingly and shamefully.
6 Righteousness guards the one whose way is blameless, but wickedness subverts the sinner.
7 There is one who pretends to be rich, but has nothing; Another pretends to be poor, but has great wealth.
8 The ransom of a man’s life is his wealth, but the poor hears no rebuke.
9 The light of the righteous rejoices, but the lamp of the wicked goes out.
10 Through insolence comes nothing but strife, but wisdom is with those who receive counsel.
11 Wealth obtained by fraud dwindles, but the one who gathers by labor increases it.
12 Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but desire fulfilled is a tree of life.
13 The one who despises the word will be in debt to it, but the one who fears the commandment will be rewarded.
14 The teaching of the wise is a fountain of life, to turn aside from the snares of death.
15 Good understanding produces favor, but the way of the treacherous is hard.
16 Every prudent man acts with knowledge, but a fool displays folly.
17 A wicked messenger falls into adversity, but a faithful envoy brings healing.
18 Poverty and shame will come to him who neglects discipline, but he who regards reproof will be honored.
19 Desire realized is sweet to the soul, but it is an abomination to fools to turn away from evil.
20 He who walks with wise men will be wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.
21 Adversity pursues sinners, but the righteous will be rewarded with prosperity.
22 A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children, and the wealth of the sinner is stored up for the righteous.
23 Abundant food is in the fallow ground of the poor, but it is swept away by injustice.
24 He who withholds his rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently.
Reflection
Reflect
I’m sure you’ve seen many patterns throughout the book of Proverbs so far. What are some of the themes/ words that came up again in this chapter? (When things are repeated in the Bible, it means they are important enough to say again! We need to pay attention to these verses.)
Engage
What do you think it means to walk with the wise?
Why do you think someone who walks with the foolish would suffer harm?
Does anything surprise you in this passage? If so, what?
An Extra Mile
Today’s reflection provided by YOUVERSION Reading Plan: 30 Day Challenge: A Walk Through Proverbs
A 31 Day Journey Through the Book of Proverbs: Day 12
Proverbs 12
Contrast the Upright and the Wicked
1 Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but he who hates reproof is stupid.
2 A good man will obtain favor from the Lord, but He will condemn a man who devises evil.
3 A man will not be established by wickedness, but the root of the righteous will not be moved.
4 An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who shames him is like rottenness in his bones.
5 The thoughts of the righteous are just, but the counsels of the wicked are deceitful.
6 The words of the wicked lie in wait for blood, but the mouth of the upright will deliver them.
7 The wicked are overthrown and are no more, but the house of the righteous will stand.
8 A man will be praised according to his insight, but one of perverse mind will be despised.
9 Better is he who is lightly esteemed and has a servant than he who honors himself and lacks bread.
10 A righteous man has regard for the life of his animal, but even the compassion of the wicked is cruel.
11 He who tills his land will have plenty of bread, but he who pursues worthless things lacks sense.
12 The wicked man desires the booty of evil men, but the root of the righteous yields fruit.
13 An evil man is ensnared by the transgression of his lips, but the righteous will escape from trouble.
14 A man will be satisfied with good by the fruit of his words, and the deeds of a man’s hands will return to him.
15 The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man is he who listens to counsel.
16 A fool’s anger is known at once, but a prudent man conceals dishonor.
17 He who speaks truth tells what is right, but a false witness, deceit.
18 There is one who speaks rashly like the thrusts of a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.
19 Truthful lips will be established forever, but a lying tongue is only for a moment.
20 Deceit is in the heart of those who devise evil, but counselors of peace have joy.
21 No harm befalls the righteous, but the wicked are filled with trouble.
22 Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, but those who deal faithfully are His delight.
23 A prudent man conceals knowledge, but the heart of fools proclaims folly.
24 The hand of the diligent will rule, but the slack hand will be put to forced labor.
25 Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs it down, but a good word makes it glad.
26 The righteous is a guide to his neighbor, but the way of the wicked leads them astray.
27 A lazy man does not roast his prey, but the precious possession of a man is diligence.
Reflection
We know that lying is wrong, but Proverbs lays out the consequences of telling lies and telling the truth. Lying always has consequences that affect not only us but others too. Today we will look at the power of our words and of how we respond to what others tell us. As verse 15 says, “The way of the fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice.”
Reflect
What are some of the things the passage says about those who tell the truth?
According to the chapter, why is lying harmful?
What is the difference between how the foolish and the wise respond to advice?
Engage
Have you ever seen the consequences of lying in your life? Maybe a lie you told or one that was told to you or someone you care about? What happened?
A 31 Day Journey Through the Book of Proverbs: Day 11
PROVERBS 11
Contrast the Upright and the Wicked
1 A false balance is an abomination to the Lord, but a just weight is His delight.
2 When pride comes, then comes dishonor, but with the humble is wisdom.
3 The integrity of the upright will guide them, but the crookedness of the treacherous will destroy them.
4 Riches do not profit in the day of wrath, but righteousness delivers from death.
5 The righteousness of the blameless will smooth his way, but the wicked will fall by his own wickedness.
6 The righteousness of the upright will deliver them, but the treacherous will be caught by their own greed.
7 When a wicked man dies, his expectation will perish, and the hope of strong men perishes.
8 The righteous is delivered from trouble, but the wicked takes his place.
9 With his mouth the godless man destroys his neighbor, but through knowledge the righteous will be delivered.
10 When it goes well with the righteous, the city rejoices, and when the wicked perish, there is joyful shouting.
11 By the blessing of the upright a city is exalted, but by the mouth of the wicked it is torn down.
12 He who despises his neighbor lacks sense, but a man of understanding keeps silent.
13 He who goes about as a talebearer reveals secrets, but he who is trustworthy conceals a matter.
14 Where there is no guidance the people fall, but in abundance of counselors there is victory.
15 He who is guarantor for a stranger will surely suffer for it, but he who hates being a guarantor is secure.
16 A gracious woman attains honor, and ruthless men attain riches.
17 The merciful man does himself good, but the cruel man does himself harm.
18 The wicked earns deceptive wages, but he who sows righteousness gets a true reward.
19 He who is steadfast in righteousness will attain to life, and he who pursues evil will bring about his own death.
20 The perverse in heart are an abomination to the Lord, but the blameless in their walk are His delight.
21 Assuredly, the evil man will not go unpunished, but the descendants of the righteous will be delivered.
22 As a ring of gold in a swine’s snout so is a beautiful woman who lacks discretion.
23 The desire of the righteous is only good, but the expectation of the wicked is wrath.
24 There is one who scatters, and yet increases all the more, and there is one who withholds what is justly due, and yet it results only in want.
25 The generous man will be prosperous, and he who waters will himself be watered.
26 He who withholds grain, the people will curse him, but blessing will be on the head of him who sells it.
27 He who diligently seeks good seeks favor, but he who seeks evil, evil will come to him.
28 He who trusts in his riches will fall, but the righteous will flourish like the green leaf.
29 He who troubles his own house will inherit wind, and the foolish will be servant to the wisehearted.
30 The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life, and he who is wise wins souls.
Reflection
In today’s passage we read more proverbs from Solomon. The chapter goes back and forth comparing the righteous and the wicked and the consequences of their actions. As we go through our lives, we have to remember that our choices don’t solely affect us; they affect everyone around us too. Verse 31 tells us that “if the righteous is repaid on earth, how much more the wicked and the sinner”!
Reflect
What are some of the consequences for the wicked? What about for the righteous?
Engage
Can you think of a time when you made a choice that affected other people (either positively or negatively)?